5 Tips For Making Back to School Easier

It's that time of year again; time to go back toany other important staff in the building. You can also
school. While many children are excited abouttake a picture of these staff members to use in
returning to school, children with autism oftenyour social story. Even if your child is not changing
experience a great deal of stress and anxiety duringschool buildings this is often helpful so that they
this time of year. Even if your child is going to theknow what to expect and can adjust to the change
same school building they attended the previousin classroom teachers or just a change in routine.
year, this still means change for your child as there4. Use Social Stories
will most likely be new children, there may be a newSocial StoriesTM were developed by Carol Gray of
teacher, and possibly a new classroom. Becausethe Gray Center for Social Learning and
these things can cause children with autism to haveUnderstanding in Grand Rapids, Michigan. A social
some major melt downs at the beginning of thestory is a short simple story, often with pictures,
school year, this article will outline five tips to helpthat talks about an event or situation. You can write
make this transition go more smoothly for you andyour own social story or use one that someone else
your child.has already written, but it is always good to
1. Get Preparedpersonalize the story so your child feels like it applies
A few weeks before school starts, talk to your childto them. You can use your child's name, the name of
about the coming end to the summer routine. Starttheir new teacher or teachers, and/or the name of
talking about how things will change when they gotheir school as well. Because most children with
back to school. Talk about what things will change forautism are visual learners, a social story will often help
them such as will they have a new babysitter, willease their anxiety. For more information about social
they ride the bus etc. Try to help them understandstories or Carol Gray you can visit
that their daily routine will be different soon and then5. Use a Visual Schedule
explain to them how.A visual schedule is another strategy that's often
2. Meet with Team Membershelpful for children with autism. You can use pictures
It may be important for you to meet with theor symbols or simply words to let your child know
members of your child's team. This includes thewhat is going to be happening. Use a picture for each
principal, therapists, teachers, assistant teachers etc.activity your child will be doing during the day. For
Doing so will give you an opportunity to share withexample, getting out of bed, getting dressed, eating
them your child's strengths as well as theirbreakfast, getting on the bus, etc. You can also use
weaknesses. It will also give you a chance to givea schedule to get the child through the school day.
them some tips on how to help your child workOften visual cues will go a long way towards easing
through difficult moments that may happen duringthe stress and anxiety and will help the child know
the school day. You can also share or revisit the IEPwhat to expect.
so that everyone is familiar with your child's goals.No matter which of these steps you use, or whether
This will also give the school staff a chance to askyou use any of them at all, the important thing is to
you any questions they may have. This meeting canfind some way to help ease your child into the new
be beneficial for everyone involved.school year. Three months is enough time for any
3. Take Your Child to Visit the School Building and thechild to lose touch with the school year routine, but
Classroombecause children with autism thrive on routines,
A couple weeks before school starts, if at allreadjusting to the structured school day can be even
possible, take the child to visit the school building andmore challenging. Once summer has come to an end,
the classroom. It's ideal if the new teacher will agreeit's important that the readjustment process be as
to meet you there so your child gets to see him/hereasy and comfortable as possible for both you and
ahead of time. It may also be helpful for your child toyour child.
meet the principal and other office staff as well as