| Love. This four letter word can do so many things | | | | |
| to people. It makes serious people laugh as much | | | | Then, you can follow it up with an "I don't really need |
| as how it can make jokers cry. Love has the | | | | your answer right now but just let me love you." |
| power to make proud men bend and quiet and | | | | speech and just do your thing after. Remember to |
| scared ones fight for what they believe in. Love is | | | | back your magic three words up with sufficient and |
| such a powerful word that there are times we find it | | | | reliable loving actions. You see, words easily fade |
| difficult to spit out. | | | | away if your actions convey otherwise. How can |
| | | | | you say that you love her if you keep on taking here |
| I think the main reason why most men find it difficult | | | | for granted? |
| to spill the beans of love is because of the word | | | | |
| rejection. Man! Men are very much scared of being | | | | After you bluntly tell your girl you love her, it's time |
| rejected. It's like a heavy ego slap on the face. But, | | | | to pamper her with overwhelming TLC that never |
| if you will think about it, being able to voice out what | | | | weakens! It's as simple as "if you love her, show |
| you really feel is already a rewarding feeling. | | | | it." Keep in mind the cliché "actions speak louder |
| Rejection may be painful but lifting the burden of | | | | than words." because it's true. |
| keeping such strong emotion to yourself is already | | | | |
| good enough to let you move on and face life the | | | | The Slow but Grand Approach |
| way it should be. | | | | Well, you basically have an idea of how this works. |
| | | | | Just like in teaching language, we have deductive and |
| Of course, we want our love to be reciprocated. I'd | | | | inductive approaches. This is the deductive |
| call someone hypocrite if he'll tell me that he doesn't | | | | approach. You give out theories, rules and examples |
| mind if after saying those three magic words they | | | | before you proceed to practicing the language. |
| will get an "I'm sorry" speech instead of the | | | | |
| sweetest four word statement "I love you too." | | | | With this approach, you start slow. You show your |
| When we say I love you to someone, we expect to | | | | girl that you care. You shower her with things – |
| get an I love you back. So, how can we make it | | | | big or small. You take her to the movies and you |
| happen? How can we make our lady love | | | | ensure that she's home safely. You personally |
| reciprocate our love? How to tell a girl you love her | | | | deliver her coffee on her break time. Then, one fine |
| and get an "I love you" back? | | | | evening, in a very romantic dinner, you give her a |
| | | | | bunch of red roses and tell her that you love her. |
| The Plain and Fast Approach | | | | |
| Just say it bluntly. Screw the right timing and the | | | | The thing about love is that, it goes both ways. |
| right place to say it. Look at her in the eye and tell | | | | You can do it fast and you can do it slow. You can |
| her. No roses, no chocolates, no nothing. | | | | just say it straight forwardly or you can just start by |
| Sometimes, girls tend to just "go with the flow" | | | | gathering "supporting documents" before you blow |
| when they are caught off guard. When they are | | | | the whistle. Both may turn out well. It may dig |
| taken by surprise, they tend to give it a try. Just | | | | your own heart break grave as well. That's how it |
| say it as sincere as possible. | | | | goes. The two faces of love. Choose yours. |