How to Tell Stories to Your Children - Creative Parenting Tips on Story Telling to Kids

What are the benefits of reading stories to yourhave them calm and ready for bed. I know that you
children and what's the best way of doing it? How tomight be tired and distracted, but try to make this
you make it interesting? How do you increase theirtime focused
learning? Make story telling time a pleasure for both2. Picking the right bedtime story
parent and child with these top storytelling tips.A great bedtime story has a sense of familiarity but
THE POWER OF STORYTELLINGwith some magic or mystery, repetition, great
When you see an indifferent, bored or restless kidcharacters and a storyline that moves along.
suddenly entranced by a beguiling story tale, you canGoldilocks and The Three Bears, for example,
fully appreciate the power of storytelling and thecontains familiar and related objects and situations
rewards it brings to both listener and storyteller. Heresuch as a breakfast setting of porridge, chairs, beds,
are just a few of the benefits of telling bedtimea mummy, a daddy etc. It also achieves an air of
stories to your child:mystery "who's been sitting in my bed" and magic by
1. Storytelling helps you bond with your childhaving three bears at the center of the tale.
Storytelling is one of the best ways to create a bondA classic tale such as Jack and The Beanstalk has
with your child. You are communicating and engagingwonderful characters from the old lady Jack meets
with your child on a one-to-one basis. It is also aalong the way, the giant's wife, and of course, the
good chance for your child to find out somethingwonderfully scary Giant with those memorable lines
about you too as you can put your personal touches"Fe Fi Fo Fum, I smell the blood of an Englishman". It
into the story.is a great chance of course for you to put on your
2. Story time forms part of a restful routine beforemost dramatic voice.
bedtimeA tale like Three Little Pigs has lots of repetition so
Most parents understand the enormous benefits ofthe child is able to anticipate parts of the story. The
sleep for a young child. However, many toddlersbig bad wolf goes up to one of the little pig's houses
refuse to go to bed. Creating a quiet and regularand he will blow and will blow....but what will happen
schedule before bedtime helps get your child to gonext!?
to bed.It is hard to go wrong if you pick one of the classic
3. Story time is one of the most effectivefairytales: The Ugly Duckling, Cinderella, The Frog
language-learning toolsPrincess, Goldilocks and The Three Bears, The
Kids do not know the difference between learningPrincess And The Pea, Rapunzel and so many more.
time and play time. For them, almost all the time isAs for the best modern bedtime stories: try the
play time. Reading a bedtime story is one of the bestworks of Julia Donaldson, Maurice Sendak's Where
ways of teaching language skills to young children.The Wild Things Are and of course, Dr Seuss.
By the way, do not feel that you have to pause the3. It helps to know the story
story to explain every new word. If your child asks,If you are already familiar with the bedtime story,
by all means, explain the word, but a lot of the timeyou can turn your primary focus onto your child. Eye
they will get the meaning through context.contact is a key part of bonding and you can't
Sometimes it is good enough for now to introduceengage your child by looking in their eyes if your
concepts that will be explained later. For example,head is in a book. Knowing the story also means you
jokes such as puns may be very difficult to explaincan be spontaneous and ad-lib a little.
and you don't need to. You are simply introducing the4. Delivery
overall concept of a 'joke' which they will learn toSpeak with passion and engagement and you are
understand in finer detail as their learning progresses.sure to hold your child in rapt attention. Obviously do
4. Story time teaches so much more than languagenot rush, keep to a pace your child can follow but at
Storytelling does not introduce simply language andthe same time, there's no need to string out every
vocabulary. Ethics, geology, botany, physics, zoology,word. Act as if you are hearing the story for the
chemistry, human behavior, social skills..all these areasfirst time too: express surprise, humor, tension as the
may be introduced through seemingly simple tales.story goes along.
5. Storytelling time will help your child to concentrate5. Participation
and focusAs your child grows older, encourage them to
The nightly bedtime story is most of the most simpleparticipate in the storytelling. They can repeat "Fe Fi
yet effective means of forming the habit ofFo Fum" with you, for instance, or you can ask them
concentration, of fixed attention in your child.what they think will happen next. Obviously, hold off
BEST WAYS TO READ STORIES TO YOUR CHILDif your child is quite tired (by the way, you don't
Here are simple tips for reading stories to yourhave to finish the story if they are too tired, just
children.bookmark for the next night) or busy with their milk
1. Schedule time for storytelling and turn it into partor too young. Before they learn to read, you can
of your bedtime routinepoint at the pictures. Once they start to learn to
Getting your child ready for bedtime is often theread, you can follow the words with your finger or
second most stressful, busy time of the day, next toask them to do the same. Do not dismiss their
the morning off-to-school rush. As mentioned, youquestions even if they are not relevant. This
should make storytelling part of your night time ritual.interaction and questioning is a valuable part of their
Switch off the TV and any other noise, put awaycognitive learning.
toys and other distractions. Dim the lights except for6. Enjoy yourself
your reading lamp, settle your child down on the sofaAnd finally, enjoy story time, do not see it as a
with their warm glass of milk and read them anchore, and your child will feel that sense of passion,
engaging story. This creates an atmosphere andconcentration and joy.
routine your child will learn to understand, and will